Friday, January 31, 2025

LEARNING FROM LIFE’S DETOURS


I try to embrace new technology.  I have found that sometimes new technology gets it wrong.

When traveling, we use GPS to get to our destination. Sometimes, we run into detours, taking us longer to get there. We were to meet another couple for dinner. We put the address in the GPS and headed out. We found ourselves in a sparsely populated area. While driving by an empty field, the voice said, “You have arrived.” 

Sometimes, detours lead to a street full of potholes, which is not the quality of the original highway. Had we stayed on the original road longer, we would have reached our destination earlier. Yogi Berra said, “When you come to a fork in the road, take it.”

That’s a metaphor for life. The roads we take make up the material of our stories.  Without journeys, we have no stories. 

I think God looks at detours differently.  It’s probably because of His viewpoint; His perspective is broader and more complete.  Have you walked through a junkyard?  Put that on your bucket list.  Bent metal, broken glass, rust.  It’s not exactly a scene you want to paint.  Now, fly over that junkyard on a sunny day.  You discover a mosaic of colors surrounded by sparkling flashes of light.  The yard hasn’t changed, your perspective has.

As younger people, we haven’t traveled long enough for many detours. When you reach my age, well let me say, I’ve seen more than I can count.  What are some of the detours of life? Detours of addiction, estrangement, betrayal, health, grief, loss.  Not all detours are bad.  I was working in a church when I was handed a detour.  The next thing I knew, I was a police chaplain.  I didn’t see that coming, and neither did the officers.  That department never had a chaplain before and I never worked with cops.  We cautiously looked at each other for a while, until I had opportunities to show my value.  As a result of that detour, I have had lifetime experiences that most people haven’t.

When reaching our destination, the detours don’t matter when destinations are places and people we love.  They are valuable installments to our stories.

Ultimately, heaven is my destination.  Until I get there, there is still a lot of material, and detours, to teach me about life.